This was a cool blog post.   The wife had sex with a stranger in a hotel room while the husband watched on a skype cam.   Those are some wild swingers.

See the post here

I have been asked about the best swingers dating site.  The truth is that it depends on what part of the country you are in.  Some sites have more members in your area than others.  I believe they are mostly about the same otherwise.   I have a profile on SDC and it seems to work fine.

We love on-premises swing clubs, but here is some good information of the different types of venues in the swinger lifestyle.

Off-Premise Clubs 
Going to an off-premise club is often like going to a wedding reception, and often held in the same places. Most off-premise clubs are held in local banquet halls (Knights of Columbus) or other large places that can be rented out. Some are held in hotel ball rooms. Those held in hotel ballrooms afford an extra convenience in that if you do decide you want to play you don’t have to go far. Since no sexual activities take place “on-premise”, if you want to play with someone you meet you need to go somewhere else, your place/ their place or a hotel room. Usually they are BYOB, providing food/ snacks and setups (soft drinks/ mixers). Off-Premise clubs give you a good opportunity to get to know other swingers in a pressure free environment. You can dance, talk, flirt without feeling like something has to happen. Where the club socials are held, dress requirements, and memberships vary from club to club, so you will need to contact the particular club you are interested in for all the details.

On-Premise Clubs 
On-premise clubs provide space for people to engage in sexual activities. They may have private rooms, themed rooms or only one large rooms where everyone plays. Each club is different and provides different features, so it is very important to check out the clubs amenities before attending. Contact the club host/ administrator and get all the details on the club and if possible a tour of the premise.

Private Parties / House Parties
As many states are trying to create laws against swing clubs, private parties are becoming more and more popular. These are usually held in someone’s home and those who attend are invited by the host couple. Most often these parties are couples only.

Conventions 
Many of the larger clubs hold annual conventions. Most often the hosting club will rent out a hotel for a weekend, providing a large amount of privacy. During the day there are usually typical “convention” type events such as discussions on issues, guest speakers, etc. Throughout the weekend activities are planned to give you plenty of time to get to know other people in attendance. Price range on these events vary and we will provide you with as much info as we have on our events page.

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